Bits of Advice from Surrogates to Intended Parents: what you should know?

Surrogates are individuals who carry a pregnancy for someone else, either through traditional surrogacy (using their own egg) or gestational surrogacy (using another person’s egg). If you are considering using a surrogate, here are some important things you should know:

1. Choose a reputable agency: Work with an agency that has experience in matching surrogates and intended parents, and that has a good reputation. A reputable agency will also ensure that your interests are protected.
2. Be transparent with your surrogate: Be clear about your expectations and goals, and communicate openly with your surrogate. This will help prevent misunderstandings and alleviate any concerns that
3. Establish a support system: Surrogacy can be emotionally challenging, so it’s important to establish a support system of friends, family, or a counselor.
4. Be financially prepared: Surrogacy can be expensive, so be prepared for the cost. This includes expenses related to the surrogacy process itself, as well as medical costs and compensation for the surrogate.
5. Respect your surrogate’s wishes. Your surrogate may have specific requests related to the pregnancy or delivery, and it’s important to respect these wishes as much as possible. This will help build trust and a positive relationship between you and your surrogate.
6. Be supportive and involved throughout the surrogacy journey: this will greatly help the surrogate to go through all steps
7. Respect the surrogate’s decision-making rights regarding her body and the pregnancy.
8. Communicate openly and regularly to establish trust and avoid misunderstandings, especially if you consider keeping contact with her after delivery
9. Be flexible and prepared for unexpected outcomes during the surrogacy process. Your Surrogates are fully involved in this journey and any undesired outcome has an impact on their emotions too.
10. Celebrate the surrogate’s role and contributions in creating your family. They are amazing, wonderful women dedicating around 1 year of their life to make it happen for you.